Carol Queen in Never a Bridesmaid, Never a Bride writes: “I find it deeply ironic that while the LGBT movement focuses its resources on the enormous battle that is gay marriage, straight people are busy signing up for polyamory workshops, renting Bend Over Boyfriend and identifying as queer because they think we hold the key to living free lives.” pg 111-112 Thats Revolting! Queer Strategies For Resisting Assimilation. 2004